Chaz Bono, the well-known child of iconic music legend and actress Cher, has lived a life under the public eye, which hasn’t always been a walk in the park. Navigating personal challenges while being in the spotlight is no easy feat. Yet, Chaz’s journey is one of the most inspiring you might come across.
In 2011, at the age of 39, Chaz began his transition to male. His mother, Cher, has always been supportive of her son, although the road wasn’t initially smooth.
A surprising twist to some, Cher initially struggled with Chaz’s coming out. According to Chaz, when his mother discovered he was gay, her reaction was overwhelming at first.
Cher, famed for an illustrious career that began with her performance alongside Sonny Bono, had her share of ups and downs both professionally and personally. Their first meeting in Los Angeles, when Cher was only 16, marked the start of a lifelong journey filled with incredible successes.
The Rise of Sonny & Cher
Through his role as an assistant to record producer Phil Spector, Sonny Bono introduced Cher to the music scene as a backup session singer on hits like “Be My Baby” and “You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feelin’.” Their professional relationship blossomed into a romantic one, although Sonny was initially more interested in one of Cher’s friends.
The Blossoming Love and Family
Eventually, Sonny and Cher made it official, marrying in 1965 and embarking on both a personal and professional partnership that would see them rise to fame. They had a child together, Chaz Bono, born on March 4, 1969, originally named Chastity Bono after the film “Chastity,” in which Cher starred.
From an early age, Chaz became a familiar face on TV, regularly appearing on “The Sonny and Cher Comedy Hour.” Despite his fame, Chaz experienced inner turmoil about his gender identity from a young age.
Finding Identity
By age 18, Chaz opened up to his parents about being a lesbian, marking the beginning of his journey towards self-discovery. In his book, he reflects on feeling different from his peers and recognizing he was gay as a teenager. Cher, who became an LGBTQ+ icon, initially found it difficult to accept this revelation but ultimately came around.
Decades later, at 39, Chaz began transitioning to male. An experience documented in “Becoming Chaz,” the transition took time for Cher to adjust to, though she was supportive throughout.
Embracing Change and Support
The process culminated in a legal gender and name change in 2010. Cher, no stranger to the LGBTQ community, recounted an initial period of adjustment filled with challenges, but growth soon followed.
Reflecting on her younger days, Cher remembered her first exposure to the gay community, recalling a moment in her home that influenced her supportive nature.
Chaz’s Continued Journey
After “Becoming Chaz” aired, Chaz maintained visibility in Hollywood, notably competing in “Dancing with the Stars” as the first transgender man. He explored acting further with roles on “American Horror Story: Roanoke” and “The Bold and the Beautiful.”
The Transformation: Body and Mind
A notable change occurred during his participation in “Dancing with the Stars,” prompting significant weight loss that he continued to maintain. He attributed part of this transformation to his transition, which connected him to his body in a new way.
Despite the success, the journey has had its hurdles, including dealing with excess skin post-weight loss. Yet, Chaz embraces a healthier lifestyle, following a diet predominantly free from grains.
Cher’s Pride and Admiration
Cher has consistently expressed pride in Chaz’s achievements, highlighting his resilience and determination. His dedication to his health and authenticity remains a source of inspiration for many, including his supportive mother.
Love and Happiness
Chaz’s love life has always sparked interest. After earlier relationships, he found love again with Shara Mathes in 2017. Shara, a former child star and now a social worker, shares a deep bond with Chaz.
Although they prefer to keep their relationship private, Chaz celebrates their companionship, expressing gratitude and joy for the life they share.
Chaz Bono’s journey is a testament to the power of authenticity and self-love. His courage and example are an encouragement to all to follow their true self, regardless of societal expectations.
